Friend help

They're these 2 sisters who I thought were my bffs. They're starting to act different, and stopped asking me to hangout. I ask them to hangout, and they come, and I want to have a sleepover, but I'm starting to wonder if I should stop bugging them. Any advice?

Well I would first ask them what's going on, if they say that you're bugging them then try planning something else?

They're too nice to say if I was bugging them.

Tell them to tell you the truth no matter what and that you won't mind what they say?

I'll try. I wonder if I've changed...... once when I was hanging out with them the older one said "You're back!" when I sent her a present on webkinz saying happy birthday when it wasn't her b-day.

Alright. LMK if it works.

yeah, try asking them, like what wifan sayed! i hope things work out!!

Haha it's said xD

Perhaps is something going on in their lives that could cause them to act this way? If they really feel this way, then when you ask them, they should be honest.

Idk. I'll let you know when I get an answer.

Lydia wrote:

They're these 2 sisters who I thought were my bffs. They're starting to act different, and stopped asking me to hangout. I ask them to hangout, and they come, and I want to have a sleepover, but I'm starting to wonder if I should stop bugging them. Any advice?

Hrmm, honestly I would say, give it a week or two and if it hasn't cleared up just give them some time. If you wait a few weeks and don't bother them to hang out usually they come back a week or two later missing you. And if they don't you may ask? Then they aren't worth keeping. True friends will miss you if you drop them.

*Rose*

I have a similar problem. I always feel like my friends are bugged by me. So far, they haven't been bothered, it was just me. But I don't know about your situation. I would think about what exactly is different. And see how long it lasts, and how long it has lasted. When did they start? Have they been doing this every day/time you see them? Only some days/times? If it hasn't been a week, give them a week. After about a week and a half or repeated behavior, I would talk to them. Or one of them, rather. Ash one of them if the other is bothered by you, and if you can do anything to stop and make them feel better.

hopefully this was understandable and helpful...

~April

Yeah, I agree with Lily. I think that maybe something happened to them that didn't include you such as a family matter or something. Good luck!

bluedolfin wrote:

I have a similar problem. I always feel like my friends are bugged by me. So far, they haven't been bothered, it was just me. But I don't know about your situation. I would think about what exactly is different. And see how long it lasts, and how long it has lasted. When did they start? Have they been doing this every day/time you see them? Only some days/times? If it hasn't been a week, give them a week. After about a week and a half or repeated behavior, I would talk to them. Or one of them, rather. Ash one of them if the other is bothered by you, and if you can do anything to stop and make them feel better.

hopefully this was understandable and helpful...

~April

I Agree with this. Its somtimes helpful to sit down and look at the situation as a whole. When did it start? Why did it start? Sometimes you can point out something you did that was wierd or soemthing they did. When someone is growing away from me i sit down and think "What has changed" Sometiems i notice its soemthing i have been doing that not even i like that im doing, and i work REALLY hard to change it. I pissed off one of my friends over this guy a few weeks ago, so what i did was now i just dont talk to the guy around her or hardly ever really... I got over it. Well looking at your flaws are really helpful in these situations.

*Rose*

It started in the beggining of summer.

Lydia wrote:

It started in the beggining of summer.

I dont understand what you mean. What does that have to do with anything?

*Rose*

I think she just means that they started acting this way to her at the begining of the summer.