Long distance Relationships?

Hrmm, actually this has nothing to do with me my friend needed advice and I didnt know what to tell her. Aparently she has a boyfriend she really likes but they live like, a few states away (he is in boarding school in a different state). So anyway this kid says he really miss's her but he is getting bored not being with her anymore. He still really likes her but he decided he is going to focus on this other girl (while still being with her) while he is away. She wants to know if i think that's right. I said:
I think its normal for a guy to get bored and want to mess with someone he really dosn't like even though he is with her and still likes the girl he is dating. But I also told her I thought he shouldn't do it even if he wants to. I was more thinking... maybe the relationship shouldn't be so long distance, there like a couple hundred miles apart, but i don't think she should break up with him if they really like each other. >.< IDK! I need your help on giving her advice.

Well some people have a problem with being in an exclusive relationship. It depends, does your friend like being exclusive or not? If she doesn't like it, then she should tell him it hurts her when he sees someone else. If he keeps dating the other girl anyways, maybe she should find a new bf.

It sounds like their relationship is exclusive. Anytime there is an exclusive relationship, it is never okay to have somebody on the side. Your friend does not deserve that. To be totally honest, this does not sound like a relationship that is going to last. I say they break it off and be friends. Your friend needs to be focusing on who is near her and find someone that she is actually going to see. They should remain friends but if they never see each other and he has admitted to being with another girl, it's time to break it off.

Lily wrote:

It sounds like their relationship is exclusive. Anytime there is an exclusive relationship, it is never okay to have somebody on the side. Your friend does not deserve that. To be totally honest, this does not sound like a relationship that is going to last. I say they break it off and be friends. Your friend needs to be focusing on who is near her and find someone that she is actually going to see. They should remain friends but if they never see each other and he has admitted to being with another girl, it's time to break it off.

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Hehe, Yeah I thought that, Ok I'll tell her that, good idea. Thanks >.< I finally got stuck. ugh now i have to write an article for the newspaper (heh. It gets annoying...).

Feel free to share it with all of us if you want.

Lily wrote:

Feel free to share it with all of us if you want.

Haha well for right now I'm just writing a notice about the club im starting to send home with people.

sry to say, but i have nver been in anything like this this, but i wiould just like to wish ur friend good luck:)

*Rose* wrote:

Lily wrote:

Feel free to share it with all of us if you want.

Haha well for right now I'm just writing a notice about the club im starting to send home with people.

Oh wow cool.


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I agree with Lily.