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PostSubject: Losing a friend...how to cope?   9/2/2008, 11:27 pm

I think that I may be losing a good friend of mine. She's in tennis which meets everyday after school. She also has made tons of new friends lately, which means less time to talk to her. The only time that I can talk to her is in study hall and we can't talk in study hall. And getting together outside of school is hard to do because we all have different schudules. What should I do? Pull the plug? Or work to save it?
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PostSubject: Re: Losing a friend...how to cope?   9/3/2008, 5:55 pm

Either way. For now, look for some other people to hang out with. Branch out. If her busy schedule pans out in the winter (when tennis is over) maybe you will be able to rekindle the flame then...give it the one last final "hurrah" you could say.

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PostSubject: Re: Losing a friend...how to cope?   9/3/2008, 8:49 pm

Thanks, Lily. I'm going to try to save it.
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PostSubject: Re: Losing a friend...how to cope?   9/3/2008, 9:24 pm

Sasha23 wrote:
I think that I may be losing a good friend of mine. She's in tennis which meets everyday after school. She also has made tons of new friends lately, which means less time to talk to her. The only time that I can talk to her is in study hall and we can't talk in study hall. And getting together outside of school is hard to do because we all have different schudules. What should I do? Pull the plug? Or work to save it?

I would say try to meet new people. eventually she will come back she is just trying to branch off a little. I'm pretty sure you wont lose her completly. A few years ago my best friend entered highschool. She is 2 years older than me and we have been best friends since i was 3 and she was 5. Either way she entered high school and we grew apart. For 3 months we completly stopped talking .. then she called me and said "Woah! Rose we havnt talked in forever, Wanna hang out?" And I noticed she hardly even knew she was branching off. Ever since then we are still best friends and that was 2 years ago... either way I'm sure you 2 will get through it.. its not to often 2 good friends just break apart for no reason. I hope it works out for you.

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PostSubject: Re: Losing a friend...how to cope?   9/3/2008, 10:06 pm

Really, we all do just get busy sometimes. I don't think she is trying to stray from you, just getting caught up in her sport and the friends she has with that. Give it time...when that is over...you will be friends once again. Busy schedules sure do put a damper on friendships.

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PostSubject: Re: Losing a friend...how to cope?   9/4/2008, 2:43 pm

Try and save it! It's good she's branching out, and you should too! In my Sunday School, everyone is in a clique, except me! I wish somebody would actually talk to me, but nobody did. When I sat next to a girl I was trying to be friends with, an other girl from "The Clique" told me to move:(. So branch out, but you can still stay friends with your old friends. Give her time, her schedule is busy. Trust me, I know a lot about busy schedules.
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PostSubject: Re: Losing a friend...how to cope?   9/5/2008, 9:19 pm

I have branched out. Believe me, but is it really ok to branch out? I'm afraid that I'm not going to get good friendships that way...
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